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No Matter What
“Faith consists in believing when it is beyond the power of reason to believe.”Voltaire I was reading a book recently when I came across a word with which I was unfamiliar: pertinacity. Of course, I referred to a dictionary for the meaning of the word: a quality of sticking with something, no matter what. Pertinacity…
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55 Years and Counting
“It’s not what we have in life, but who we have in our life that matters.” ~ Unknown I first saw Michael on the San Francisco Muni bus on my way to school during my freshman year in high school. He climbed aboard each morning with his school books and his clarinet case. He was…
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We Can Do Better
“American food is not what I’m used to — everything is like three portions.”Estelle, British Rapper I noticed it, but I ignored it. I could see it at the mall, the beach, and in restaurants. I could see it at Giants’ games, on school campuses, and at Starbucks. Worst of all, I could see it in the mirror…
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A Much-Needed Change
“It’s okay to struggle, but it’s not okay to give up on yourself or your dreams.”Gabe Grunewald The Facebook post was simple and to the point. In white letters on a solid black background, it read: “When all you want is to just suddenly die.” I read it, paused briefly, then dragged the image to my desktop. While…
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Faultfinding
“It is usually best to be generous with praise and cautious with criticism.” Author unknown I think it’s fairly safe to say that we’ve all been criticized by someone for some reason, valid or not, at some point in our lives. I think it’s also fairly safe to say that we’ve all criticized someone else…
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Strategic Consumption
“Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.”Dalai Lama For many years, I was a news junkie. Upon waking up in the morning, I’d turn on the television to check the local news, just to see if I’d missed something through the night. I’d listen to KCBS news radio in the car on my…
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Stand By Me
“No I won’t be afraid, no I won’t be afraid,just as long as as you stand, stand by me.”Sung by Ben E. King Kathy and I were sitting in the living room this morning enjoying a nice conversation prior to beginning our day. As is often the case, we had music playing on Pandora. Normally, the transition…
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A Beacon of Light?
“What if desire wasn’t an urge to be tamed, but a beacon of truth to be followed?”Danielle LaPorte The dictionary has a number of definitions for the word beacon: 1. a guiding or warning signal, as a light or fire, especially one in an elevated position.2. a tower or hill used for such purposes.3. a lighthouse, signal buoy,…
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The Next Chapter
“Life is like a book, it is told in chapters, and you cannot embrace the next chapter until you close the current one.” Casey Neistat When I write, I do so one word, one sentence, one paragraph at a time. I never begin a new paragraph until the previous one has been written. As I consider what to write next,…
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On Staying Calm
“The more tranquil a man becomes, the greater his success, his influence, his power for good.”James Allen I’m not exactly sure what caused me to think about this last night, but I wish I had learned about the power of calmness long before I did. Maybe it’s human nature, or a “guy thing,” or maybe it’s just…