“Our wounds are 
often openings into 
the best and most beautiful 
part of us.” 
David Richo 

Today’s blog post is a brief summary of David Richo’s inspiring book 5 Things We Cannot Change.

1. Everything changes.

In life, change is inevitable. No matter how much we try to resist it or hold on to what is familiar, everything is subject to change. This lesson teaches us to embrace change as an opportunity for growth and transformation, rather than fearing or resisting it.

2. Impermanence.

Similar to the first lesson, this lesson emphasizes that nothing lasts forever. Everything in life has a beginning and an end. Understanding the impermanence of all things helps us appreciate and savor the present moment, rather than constantly seeking security and permanence.

3. Life is not always fair.

The reality of life is that it is not always fair. Sometimes bad things happen to good people, and others seemingly have unearned advantages. This lesson teaches us to accept that life is inherently unfair and focus on our own personal growth and how we respond to challenges, rather than dwelling on the unfairness of external circumstances.

4. Pain is a part of life.

Pain and suffering are unavoidable aspects of the human experience. Instead of avoiding or suppressing pain, this lesson teaches us to embrace it as an opportunity for learning and growth. By acknowledging and processing our pain, we develop resilience, compassion, and wisdom.

 5. We are not in control.

Despite our desires for control and certainty, the truth is that we have limited control over most aspects of our lives. This lesson encourages us to let go of the need for control and embrace a sense of surrender, trusting in the natural flow of life. By accepting our lack of control, we can find peace and learn to adapt to whatever circumstances arise.

Richo’s book is available
on Amazon.