A Beacon of Light

I had the pleasure of an unexpected, one-on-one breakfast with legendary U.C.L.A. men’s basketball coach John Wooden in the summer of 1974. During his years as head coach, the Bruins won ten national championships in twelve years. I have been a disciple of Coach Wooden since that memorable summer morning meal. Wooden considered himself to…

“Life is about  accepting the  challenges  along the way.”  Roy T. Bennett Three challenges: (1) to let go, (2) to be grateful, and (3) to be open to what’s coming next. The promise of accepting these challenges is that we will “be happy and content.” Sounds like a pretty good deal, right? Let’s take a…

“The friendships of your youth leave an everlasting impact on your soul.”  Yesterday was a perfect summer day in Walnut Creek for the annual Saint Gabriel Class of 1968 Bocce Ball Classic. More than a dozen class members, along with several significant others, gathered at Rossmoor, a retirement community which is home to two of our classmates. Pat…

“Death is not  a foe, but aninevitable adventure.” Sir Oliver Lodge   I came across an article a few months ago that stated, “The SSA (Social Security Administration) estimates a remaining life expectancy of 13.25 years for an exact age of 72.” What a coincidence! I turned 72 on June 4 of this year, so I did…

“As the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.” Colossians 3:13 Yes, it seems like there is a “National Day” for just about everything. Today’s observance, while overlooked by many, might be one of the most significant on our calendar: National Forgiveness Day. Anger and resentment are inevitable components of the human experience. When we are hurt…

“Expectations are resentments waiting to happen.”Anne Lamott I had not visited the San Francisco Zoo in many years… until yesterday. Kathy and I spent a few hours wandering around the venue enjoying a comfortably overcast San Francisco day. I know I visited the zoo with my kids when they were toddlers, but my sons are now 40,…

“Look for the extraordinary in the ordinary.” Matthew Kinsley It’s been said that our most treasured moments aren’t always the big, important ones. The older I get, the more I realize the truth in this statement. Kathy and I took another walk in The City today. This time, we walked through the Glen Park neighborhood, then through Glen Canyon…

“In Sausalito,  heaven isn’t  a metaphor.  It’s a feeling.” Kathy and I began her birthday celebration yesterday with breakfast at Java Beach Café on Judah Street in San Francisco. The weather was typical June gloom in The City, but breakfast at Java Beach was a great way to begin the day. We weren’t going to…

What better way to celebrate Kathy’s birthday than a few days in San Francisco? It’s typical June weather in The City — cold, windy, overcast — but we’re planning to make the most of it. Heading over to Sausalito on the ferry boat today for a birthday lunch.