“Parting is such
sweet sorrow.” 
William Shakespeare

As we grow older, one of the more difficult facts of life we learn to accept is that not every relationship is meant to last forever. It seems to be fairly common that people write others out of their lives for a variety of reasons. Some of those reasons are quite valid. Others, maybe not so much. Either way, it happens,… and when it does, letting go can be an act of self-respect.

People change over time. Life circumstances do, too. People’s values and priorities evolve through the years, occasionally leading to the demise of a relationship. When this happens in our lives, being angry or holding a grudge is pointless. Our task at times like this is to protect our own emotional and spiritual well-being and allow the other person to move on.

Every relationship teaches us something. Most help us come to a better understanding of ourselves. In time, we are better equipped to recognize which of our relationships are truly healthy for us, and which are not. We also have the opportunity to come to a better appreciation for those who truly support us, even when we’re going through difficult times.

For these reasons, it’s best to view the end of a relationship as an opportunity for growth, rather than a personal failure, rejection, or with indifference.

It’s been said that the kindest chapter we can write, for ourselves and for others, is the one in which we gently detach with love, let go, and turn the page.

And that’s an acceptable thing to do!